"Now my friends it's time to go,
And this love will live to grow,
And I want you all to know,
I'm going home."
Thanks to Pat for reminding me of this beautiful song by Arlo Guthrie which was in my head as we marked the one year anniversary of John's death this last Monday with the scattering of his ashes just out beyond one of his favorite surf spots in Morro Bay. It seemed like the right time and place to do it. John's sister JoAnna, his brother Frankie, and his donor sister, Lisa, and her husband Manuel, were all able to come to join us in a celebration of John's spirit on what couldn't have been a prettier autumn morning in Morro Bay. His presence was felt as six to eight foot swells lifted the 72 ft. boat and our spirits with it.
When the boat anchored (at latitude 35degrees 21.832 minutes north and longitude 120degrees 53.607 minutes west)the sun made a sparkling path across the water which calmed a little, and a big, brown pelican circled down and landed next to us and watched solemnly as we read some of John's poetry. Then, his ashes were lowered into the water and after we each threw a red rose in to where the basket had disappeared, the pelican took off and flew away.
I had chosen this poem of Malaysian poet See Fee Lee to share at the ceremony. It was a poem I had sent to John when he was up at Stanford the first time and I was working here in San Luis Obispo. I found it again when I was getting ready for our outing on Monday and it took on new meaning.
Fly home there will be shine
with bright orange light
Fly home there will be sweet
with bright orange light
Fly home there will be caring
with bright orange light
Fly home there will be lovely
with bright orange light
Fly home there will be comfort
with bright orange light
Fly home there will be fortune
with bright orange light
Fly home there will be future
with bright orange light
Fly home Fly home to your nest
with bright orange light
My heartfelt thanks to those of you who thought of us and sent notes of support this last week. I know there are many more who remembered John this week too. There were nearly 100 views of the blog early this week. Thanks for remembering and caring.
With love,
Dana
( This last photo is Lisa and Manuel's boat in North Carolina. Great name. )
Mike and Jillian |
Our surprise visitor |
Frankie reads his poem |
Mike B. reads a poem |
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( This last photo is Lisa and Manuel's boat in North Carolina. Great name. )